I have a full-time job that I love every day, and this is one of the topics I talk about frequently. I love the responsibility that having a job provides. I love the people that I work with, and I love the opportunity that having a job offers.
Having a job can be like being a parent. I think of myself as a very independent person. I don’t let other people in. I don’t let other people control me, and I am very independent. Yet, my job is a major part of who I am. Being a corporate executive or a doctor or a teacher or a teacher or a lawyer all the other jobs I mentioned are like being a parent in that they’re not just about who I am, they’re about me.
You can do a lot of things that you dont want your kid to do, but you also dont want to be a parent-like. You want to be a parent, you want to have fun, you want to have fun, you want to be a good father. And you don’t want your kid to have a job. I get that. But I do want my kid to have a job.
I read somewhere that when some people are talking to you and you are listening, you get a certain feeling in your stomach. You know youre in a chat, but you don’t get the feeling you need to say something. That feeling is the feeling you get when you read the same thing over and over again and the repetition gets your attention.
I like my job. And I do feel a certain something when I read messages in chat. But I’ve been in chat for about five years now. I’ve never been on a job. I don’t think I’m a bad father. But do I listen to my kid and say “Hey, I know you’re working”? Probably not.
I don’t know if there’s a right way to be a father, I guess. I have a child, but I don’t feel like I need to go to work and be there all day. I am a full-time dad, so that makes me feel like I should have been there all day. But I don’t and that’s okay. I don’t feel like I need to be at work to make Mom happy.
Ive been in chat for about five years. Ive never been on a job. I dont think Im a bad dad. But do I listen to my kid and say Hey, I know youre working Probably not.
I dont think Im a bad dad. I dont feel like I need to be at work to make Mom happy. But do I listen to my kid and say Hey, I know youre working Probably not.
I don’t know, but I can’t tell you that you are wrong just yet. I think there’s a lot of gray area here, and it’s really hard to say. To be honest, I’m not sure I know enough to tell you whether or not you are wrong yet. The truth is, I don’t know. I’ve been trying to figure out this answer for about a year.
I think we all have a job in some way, but what do we do it? I think a lot of us are probably working in a variety of areas, from school to family to hobbies, and that is probably the extent of our jobs. Maybe in some areas we feel like we do more than others, but I think there’s probably overlap between most of the jobs in our lives. I think we all have something to do.
